How Do Attractions Happen In Relationships?
Opposites definitely attract when provided that you and the opposite pole are made of magnets. When it comes to relationships, this only goes as far as sexual orientation is concerned. Beyond that, the rule ceases to apply.
Here and there, we hear of couples who are having problems because of differences. He loves the night life; she prefers watching her favorite late night show. He is not fond of kids; she wants twins nine months after they get married.
John and Victoria, when they were introduced at a party, instantly connected to each other. No sooner after exchanging phone numbers, they began dating. Victoria fancied the way John was so adept at the use of computers, which is totally not her. He may be frequently late, but she never minded this. What she focused on was discovering new things about him. Eventually however, and as expected, the early flames of passions soon began to cool down. Known for being punctual, Victoria soon began to be ticked off by Johns lack for regard of time.
Do you think Mike will even have time to think of finding a nice gift to add to Kay’s collection of golf gifts? If they do find the time, one is inclined to doubt its quality. How will Kay enjoy a whole day watching TV, when what she is used to is seeing the greenery and feeling the breeze gently blow her hair she walks through the golf course? In the same manner, how can one expect Mike to enjoy tagging behind Kay as she putts her way to the 18th hole? A solitaire engagement ring may not be the future for them.
At the same party, Jason and Christine were also introduced. That was that. However, they ended up seeing each other weekly because of a bowling tournament they joined. Having common friends, they would have coffee before going home. They started having practice games to warm up before the tournament starts. Jason grew to enjoy Christine’s company. They had much more to talk about. Unlike his former girlfriend, Christine shared his love for the sport; and so understood why he spent so much time and money on bowling.
Given the above scenario, do you think Mike and Kay will get to the point where they decide to marry and rejoice over early pregnancy signs together? Having mutual attraction in the early part of courtship is a big help. However, unless supported by compatible character, it is doubtful that it will go any further; and even more doubtful that it should.
In any given relationship, the key is spending time together. One needs to know that he or she is appreciated, at the same time he or she should also return this favor. My two cents on this is that Jason and Christine’s relationship would fare better in the long run.
Chemistry between couples must be sustained. If not, the fire dies down and is reduced to but a smoldering heap. Make sure that before falling head over heel over someone, there exists a bond, a like for things in common.
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